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Are there free dating sites like plenty of fish but with fewer ads?

Started by Sarah26 Jul 2025Dating Apps & Sites5 replies
Sarah avatar
Joined: Mar 2019
Messages: 5329
#1

Wanted to ask about free dating sites like plenty of fish because everything I find online reads like an advert.

If anyone has tested free dating sites properly, I want to know what the ads cost you in attention.

Where free dating sites either works or falls apart is what the gender ratio looks like locally.

If you have used free dating sites like plenty of fish, say what you would do differently.

SeanH avatar
Joined: Oct 2019
Messages: 840
#2

Tried free dating sites across the first handful of matches and honestly what the pool looked like was uneven depending on the hour.

With free dating sites I'd start here: check when the account was last active.

Do not rely on the recommended matches alone — that's what cost me the first month on free dating sites.

Christina Powell avatar
Joined: Mar 2019
Messages: 847
#3

After the trial period with free dating sites, what I saw was more consistent than the alternatives.

What helped most with free dating sites was that I made a point to ask one specific question instead of a generic opener.

Where free dating sites either works or falls apart is whether the premium upsell is worth it.

The question underneath all of this is what the reply rate looks like without photos, at least with free dating sites.

I ended up on Datedesire free dating after the same free dating sites question and it was the least painful of the lot.

Garrett avatar
Joined: Mar 2019
Messages: 845
#4

@SeanH that hasn't been my experience with free dating sites, and I gave it the first handful of matches.

What helped most with free dating sites was that I made a point to use a photo that shows your face clearly.

Where free dating sites either works or falls apart is what the reply rate looks like without photos.

Where free dating sites either works or falls apart is how the free tier compares with the paid one.

Datenest free tier came up a lot when I was researching free dating sites, and it held up better than expected.

Heather Barnes avatar
Joined: Nov 2023
Messages: 828
#5

Tried free dating sites across the first ten conversations and honestly what people reported was more consistent than the alternatives.

The fix that worked on free dating sites was simple enough — use a photo that shows your face clearly.

I wasted the first handful of matches on free dating sites because I'd expect the algorithm to do the work.

Nobody writing about free dating sites seems willing to say how it behaves after a month of use.

Worth mentioning Datingfly free dating if free dating sites is what you are weighing up — the free tier actually lets you message.

Logan avatar
Joined: Sep 2024
Messages: 3457
#6

Respectfully @Sarah, free dating sites isn't that clear-cut. How the volume moved was roughly the same either way.

What helped most with free dating sites was that I made a point to say what you are looking for in plain words.

What matters more than the feature list on free dating sites is how it behaves after a month of use.

For me the thing that separates the good ones with free dating sites is how the pool looks outside the big metros.

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