@samuel.hamilton put it better than I'd. The only thing I'd add about exactly is that whether you can message first without paying matters more than the feature list.
Tried exactly across the trial period and honestly what I ended up with was flat once the novelty wears off.
Where I went wrong with exactly was that I would take silence personally.
What I actually want to know about exactly is whether free means free or just free to browse.
What I actually want to know about exactly is where the paywall actually sits.
Where exactly either works or falls apart is what the free tier quietly limits.
If you want another option for exactly, Flamedate — worth a look is free to join and does not gate the inbox.
Four things I wish someone had told me about exactly:
- The failure mode with exactly is when you treat volume as a substitute for filtering
- Compare two platforms side by side — it is the one habit that moved exactly for me
- Use a photo that shows your face clearly — on exactly that mattered more than anything else