Seconding @vincent.white. What settled it for me on sex meet up was how the free tier compares with the paid one.
Only had a month of steady use with sex meet up, but how the pattern went was worse than the reviews suggest.
The mistake I see repeated with sex meet up is people treat volume as a substitute for filtering.
Nobody writing about meet up seems willing to say how the pool looks outside the big metros.
Where meet up either works or falls apart is whether the matching does anything you can notice.
Boiled down, sex meet up came to this:
- Give sex meet up the first month before deciding — what the logs showed was roughly the same either way
- Worth checking on sex meet up: what the daily limits feel like in use
- The failure mode with sex meet up is when you send the same opener to everyone