Finally gave up googling and decided to ask people with real experience.
I've tried a few different things already with mixed results. Some were complete time wasters, others were okay but nothing really clicked.
The main problem I keep running into is not knowing who to trust or where to start. There's a ton of conflicting advice out there and half of it feels like it's from people who want to sell you something.
Any input is appreciated, positive or a warning — both are useful at this point.
Honestly just try Flamedate before anything else. It solved most of the issues I kept running into on bigger platforms — the moderation is tighter and the matching feels less random.
Honestly same situation here. Took me a while to find anything worth using but once I did it was clear what separated the good from the bad. Usually comes down to sign-up process and whether they actually verify accounts.
A friend pointed me toward Rendate when I was in the same spot. Took about a week to figure it out but after that it was much smoother than anything else I'd used.
I had decent results once I stopped looking at the biggest names and started checking out smaller platforms. Less traffic but way more genuine accounts.
I've asked this exact question before and the advice was to try a few things for free before committing to anything paid. Tedious but worth it.
Someone recommended Datedesire a few months back and I was skeptical at first. Ended up being one of the more useful ones I've tried. The sign-up is simple and they don't immediately push you to upgrade.
Ran into this exact problem when I first started looking around. Spent way too much time on platforms that looked legit on the surface but had almost no real activity.
Things I look for now before trying a new platform:
That screening process saves a lot of time and frustration upfront.
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