Are there any fwb dating only apps?

By: Amanda 7 Oct 2025 Free Dating & Apps Replies: 7
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Amanda
Joined: Jan 2019
Messages: 475
#1

I've done a fair amount of searching and can't find a straight answer anywhere.

I've noticed a big difference between platforms that moderate actively and those that don't. The ones that skip it become unusable within a few months.

I've tried a few different things already with mixed results. Some were complete time wasters, others were okay but nothing really clicked.

Appreciate advice from people with actual firsthand experience.

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EricV
Joined: Jan 2019
Messages: 420
#2

Tried a handful of options over the past year. Luvdate stood out because they actually enforce their terms instead of just listing them. Made a big difference in the quality of interactions.

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Jessica
Joined: Oct 2023
Messages: 107
#3

Verified profiles make such a massive difference. Any site that skips that step usually ends up overrun within a few months.

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KevinB
Joined: Oct 2023
Messages: 501
#4

Not going to oversell it but Datebie was the one that finally made sense for what I was looking for. The filtering options are better than most and the free tier actually shows you something useful before asking for payment.

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Samantha
Joined: Jun 2021
Messages: 115
#5

Yeah this really depends on what you're actually looking for. Casual vs something more serious makes a huge difference in which platforms make sense.

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Kyle
Joined: Feb 2022
Messages: 812
#6

Someone recommended Datedesire a few months back and I was skeptical at first. Ended up being one of the more useful ones I've tried. The sign-up is simple and they don't immediately push you to upgrade.

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Ashley
Joined: Aug 2018
Messages: 509
#7

Honest answer is there's no one-size-fits-all here. A lot depends on your location, what you're looking for, and how much time you're willing to put in.

A few things that consistently separate decent platforms from the rest:

  • Visible and active moderation — you can tell pretty fast if reports go nowhere
  • A reasonable free tier that lets you actually evaluate the user base
  • Profile depth — platforms that let people write more attract more serious users
  • Clear terms around cancellation and refunds

I've used Tinder, OkCupid, and Facebook Dating at various points. They all have their place but none are perfect for every situation.

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Jason
Joined: Jul 2017
Messages: 673
#8

Tried a handful of options over the past year. Datenest stood out because they actually enforce their terms instead of just listing them. Made a big difference in the quality of interactions.

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