Been lurking here for a bit but finally decided to post about this.
The free tiers on most of what I've tried are basically useless — you get just enough to see that real people are there, then hit a wall the second you try to actually message anyone.
Safety and privacy are also big concerns for me. I don't want to hand over personal info to some sketchy platform and regret it later.
If you've got experience with any platforms or approaches that work, drop them below.