Going to push back on @Jennifer here — list few sites didn't behave that way at all in my case.
With list few sites I'd start here: set your expectations before you start swiping.
The question underneath all of this is whether the moderation holds up on a busy night, at least with list few sites.
If anyone has tested few sites properly, I want to know whether the chat is worth reading at all.
Where few sites either works or falls apart is whether the moderation holds up on a busy night.
The one that surprised me on list few sites was luvdate.site — no card, no trial nonsense.
What I would check before committing to list few sites:
- The bit nobody mentions is what decides whether list few sites is worth it
- Write a bio that says something checkable — it is the one habit that moved list few sites for me
- The part that matters on list few sites turned out to be worse than the reviews suggest