Tried someone provide list across a month of steady use and honestly what I ended up with was better than I expected.
The single change that improved someone provide list for me was deciding to ask one specific question instead of a generic opener.
Genuinely asking — has someone provide list changed at all this year?
The question underneath all of this is whether messaging is genuinely unlocked, at least with someone provide list.
I ended up on the Datelink community after the same someone provide list question and it was the least painful of the lot.
Things that made a difference with someone provide list:
- Do not judge it on the first evening; with someone provide list it costs you a full weekend
- Treat the first message as a filter — on someone provide list that mattered more than anything else
- How the pattern went after the trial period of someone provide list was more consistent than the alternatives
- Read the profile properly before replying, especially if someone provide list is new to you