I gave active a month of steady use and what the follow-through looked like was stronger at the weekend.
If you take one thing from this thread on active: ask one specific question instead of a generic opener.
The question underneath all of this is how the free tier compares with the paid one, at least with active.
What matters more than the feature list on active is how long a profile stays visible without paying.
If you want another option for active, datedesire.online is free to join and does not gate the inbox.
Rough notes from using active:
- The difference you notice first is what decides whether active is worth it
- The thing that actually changes the outcome on active turned out to be flat once the novelty wears off
- If active is your only option, at least treat the first message as a filter
- The failure mode with active is when you pay before you have tested the free side