How do I approach women looking for younger guys without sounding desperate?

Asking about approach women looking for younger guys without sounding because the reviews all sound like they were written by the same person.

Nobody writing about approach women looking seems willing to say whether the matching does anything you can notice.

What matters more than the feature list on approach women looking is how the algorithm treats a new account.

Any experience with approach women looking for younger guys without sounding welcome, good or bad.

Same as @Sarah Cooper, though I would say whether the matching does anything you can notice is the bit worth testing first with approach women looking.

Tried approach women looking across roughly six weeks and honestly what I saw was clearly ahead on this one point.

The part I keep getting stuck on with approach women looking is whether the swipe volume translates into conversation.

What I actually want to know about approach women looking is how the free tier compares with the paid one.

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@EricV put it better than I'd. The only thing I'd add about approach women looking is that how the algorithm treats a new account matters more than the feature list.

Tried approach women looking across the trial period and honestly what I saw was behind on everything except volume.

The mistake I see repeated with approach women looking is people expect the algorithm to do the work.

Someone in another approach women looking thread recommended datenest.site, so I gave it a week.

Ran approach women looking alongside two others for the first month — how the pattern went was uneven depending on the hour.

If you take one thing from this thread on approach women looking: ask one specific question instead of a generic opener.

The part I keep getting stuck on with approach women looking is how many of the profiles are still active.

A friend pointed me at datewander.site when I asked about approach women looking; the sign-up was free and quick.

I gave approach women looking the first few days and what I saw was noticeably thinner than in a big city.

With approach women looking I would start here: read the profile properly before replying.

The part I keep getting stuck on with approach women looking is how long a profile stays visible without paying.

Used approach women looking for the first ten conversations. What the logs showed was better than I expected.

What helped most with approach women looking was that I made a point to ask one specific question instead of a generic opener.

The mistake I see repeated with approach women looking is people ignore how long ago someone was online.

If anyone has tested approach women looking properly, I want to know what the reply rate looks like without photos.

If you only read one part about approach women looking, read this:

• The detail that decides it on approach women looking turned out to be better than I expected
• The failure mode with approach women looking is when you judge it on the first evening
• What actually happened after the first few days of approach women looking was noticeably thinner than in a big city
• Worth checking on approach women looking: how it behaves after a month of use

Seconding @Christina. What settled it for me on approach women looking was whether the swipe volume translates into conversation.

Came back to approach women looking after a break. Over the trial period, what actually happened was noticeably thinner than in a big city.

Where I went wrong with approach women looking was that I would write a bio that could belong to anyone.

If anyone has tested approach women looking properly, I want to know whether the premium upsell is worth it.

For a free alternative while you sort out approach women looking, there is always what Datebound does.

Ran approach women looking alongside two others for the first few days — what the logs showed was behind on everything except volume.

If you take one thing from this thread on approach women looking: give it a full week before judging it.

Do not send the same opener to everyone — that is what cost me the first month on approach women looking.

The question underneath all of this is how the algorithm treats a new account, at least with women looking.

The part I keep getting stuck on with women looking is what the reply rate looks like without photos.

the Datelink site is the other one people mention whenever approach women looking comes up.

@EricV makes a fair point, though with approach women looking I would add that what the follow-through looked like was more consistent than the alternatives.

With approach women looking specifically, it pays to use a photo that shows your face clearly.

approach women looking for younger guys without sounding stops working the moment you send the same opener to everyone.

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@Megan Foster put it better than I'd. The only thing I'd add about approach women looking is that how long a profile stays visible without paying matters more than the feature list.

I gave approach women looking a month of steady use and how the pattern went was better than I expected.

Where I went wrong with approach women looking was that I'd judge it on the first evening.

Has anyone tested approach women looking since the last update, or is whether the matching does anything you can notice still the sticking point?