Respectfully @Heather Barnes, how to find a is not that clear-cut. What the replies looked like was uneven depending on the hour.
The single change that improved how to find a for me was deciding to read the profile properly before replying.
What I actually want to know about how to find a is how the pool changes at weekends.
The question underneath all of this is what the numbers look like in a smaller town, at least with find a.
For me the part I got wrong at first with find a is how many nearby profiles are actually nearby.
Rough notes from using how to find a:
- Keep the conversation on the platform until you meet — it is the one habit that moved how to find a for me
- Set your expectations before you start swiping, especially if how to find a is new to you
- Keep a separate email for it — on how to find a that mattered more than anything else