So I've been trying to figure this out for a while and figured I'd just ask here directly.
Every time I find something that looks promising, I dig a little deeper and it's either behind a massive paywall or the reviews are suspiciously perfect.
The free tiers on most of what I've tried are basically useless — you get just enough to see real people are there, then hit a wall the moment you try to message anyone.
Feel free to share whatever has worked, even if it's not the obvious answer.