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How do I get more matches on the her dating app?

Started by Chelsea17 Apr 2026Dating Apps & Sites8 replies
Chelsea avatar
Joined: Aug 2024
Messages: 840
#1

Wanted to ask about how to get more matches on the her because everything I find online reads like an advert.

If anyone has tested how to get more properly, I want to know whether the premium upsell is worth it.

What matters more than the feature list on how to get more is whether the premium upsell is worth it.

If how to get more matches on the her worked for you, I would like to know what made the difference.

Ethan Parker avatar
Joined: Jun 2021
Messages: 846
#2

Only had the first handful of matches with how to get more, but what I ended up with was roughly the same either way.

The fix that worked on how to get more was simple enough — ask one specific question instead of a generic opener.

The trap with how to get more is that it is easy to treat volume as a substitute for filtering.

Where get more either works or falls apart is whether the matching does anything you can notice.

If anyone has tested get more properly, I want to know what the daily limits feel like in use.

A friend pointed me at Datebound free tier when I asked about how to get more; the sign-up was free and quick.

Things that made a difference with how to get more:

  • The piece people skip is what decides whether how to get more is worth it
  • Read the profile properly before replying — it is the one habit that moved how to get more for me
  • Worth checking on how to get more: whether the premium upsell is worth it
  • The part I got wrong at first on how to get more turned out to be flat once the novelty wears off
KatyM avatar
Joined: Feb 2024
Messages: 845
#3

Only had about a fortnight with how to get more, but what the numbers looked like was worse than the reviews suggest.

With how to get more specifically, it pays to set your expectations before you start swiping.

how to get more matches on the her stops working the moment you write a bio that could belong to anyone.

Chris avatar
Joined: Jan 2023
Messages: 839
#4

I gave how to get more the first handful of matches and how the volume moved was about what you would guess.

The fix that worked on how to get more was simple enough — give it a full week before judging it.

Do not send the same opener to everyone — that is what cost me the trial period on how to get more.

What I would check before committing to how to get more:

  • Say what you are looking for in plain words, especially if how to get more is new to you
  • Set your expectations before you start swiping — it is the one habit that moved how to get more for me
  • What I saw after the first month of how to get more was uneven depending on the hour
Brittany avatar
Joined: May 2024
Messages: 846
#5

I want to agree with @Chris but how to get more kept doing the opposite for me.

With how to get more I'd start here: ask one specific question instead of a generic opener.

Where I went wrong with how to get more was that I'd expect the algorithm to do the work.

What I would check before committing to how to get more:

  • If how to get more is your only option, at least say what you are looking for in plain words
  • Give how to get more the first ten conversations before deciding — how the volume moved was about what you would guess
  • Keep a separate email for it, especially if how to get more is new to you
Dustin avatar
Joined: Aug 2020
Messages: 840
#6

Only had the opening stretch with how to get more, but what the replies looked like was less reliable than it looks from outside.

With how to get more I would start here: ask one specific question instead of a generic opener.

For me the part that matters with how to get more is what the reply rate looks like without photos.

If you want another option for how to get more, turndate.site is free to join and does not gate the inbox.

If you only read one part about how to get more, read this:

  • If how to get more is your only option, at least give it a full week before judging it
  • The failure mode with how to get more is when you ignore how long ago someone was online
  • Give how to get more the trial period before deciding — how the pattern went was clearly ahead on this one point
  • Worth checking on how to get more: how the pool looks outside the big metros
Amber Ross avatar
Joined: Oct 2023
Messages: 817
#7

Tried how to get more across the opening stretch and honestly what the follow-through looked like was better than I expected.

With how to get more specifically, it pays to give it a full week before judging it.

Worth mentioning what Datingfly does if how to get more is what you are weighing up — the free tier actually lets you message.

Kyle avatar
Joined: Oct 2019
Messages: 4615
#8

@Ethan Parker I read that differently. On how to get more, what I saw was uneven depending on the hour for me.

If you take one thing from this thread on how to get more: read the profile properly before replying.

For me the thing that separates the good ones with how to get more is how the algorithm treats a new account.

The part I keep getting stuck on with how to get more is what the gender ratio looks like locally.

Heather Barnes avatar
Joined: Jul 2024
Messages: 828
#9

Came back to how to get more after a break. Over a couple of evenings, what actually happened was noticeably thinner than in a big city.

Before writing how to get more off, try this: give it a full week before judging it.

I wasted about a fortnight on how to get more because I would treat volume as a substitute for filtering.

Is anyone getting different results from how to get more, particularly on how long a profile stays visible without paying?

Datescout instead is the other one people mention whenever how to get more comes up.

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