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How do I join dating groups on facebook?

Started by Lauren Mitchell10 Jul 2026Conversation & Advice7 replies
Lauren Mitchell avatar
Joined: Nov 2022
Messages: 846
#1

Looking for honest experience with join dating groups on facebook — what worked, what did not.

If anyone has tested join dating groups properly, I want to know what the reply rate looks like without photos.

What I actually want to know about join dating groups is whether the premium upsell is worth it.

Tell me if join dating groups on facebook is not worth the effort and I will drop it.

Andrew avatar
Joined: May 2024
Messages: 847
#2

@Lauren Mitchell makes a fair point, though with join dating groups I would add that what the follow-through looked like was worse than the reviews suggest.

With join dating groups I would start here: ask one specific question instead of a generic opener.

The trap with join dating groups is that it is easy to write a bio that could belong to anyone.

The part I keep getting stuck on with join dating groups is how many of the profiles are still active.

If join dating groups is the sticking point, Datewander instead handles it without an upgrade prompt.

Stephanie avatar
Joined: Feb 2025
Messages: 843
#3

Seconding @Andrew. What settled it for me on join dating groups was whether the premium upsell is worth it.

Used join dating groups for a month of steady use. How the pattern went was flat once the novelty wears off.

What I actually want to know about join dating groups is how many of the profiles are still active.

If anyone has tested dating groups properly, I want to know what the reply rate looks like without photos.

For me the detail that took longest to learn with dating groups is whether the matching does anything you can notice.

rendate.site is the other one people mention whenever join dating groups comes up.

RyanK avatar
Joined: Feb 2023
Messages: 844
#4

Only had the first ten conversations with join dating groups, but what I saw was noticeably thinner than in a big city.

The single change that improved join dating groups for me was deciding to treat the first message as a filter.

The mistake I see repeated with join dating groups is people write a bio that could belong to anyone.

The question underneath all of this is whether the matching does anything you can notice, at least with join dating groups.

Things that made a difference with join dating groups:

  • On join dating groups, what the logs showed was stronger at the weekend compared with the alternatives
  • Read the profile properly before replying — it is the one habit that moved join dating groups for me
  • Worth checking on join dating groups: whether the premium upsell is worth it
  • The factor that keeps coming up on join dating groups turned out to be flat once the novelty wears off
Jessica Lane avatar
Joined: Mar 2025
Messages: 847
#5

@Andrew maybe it varies by city, because join dating groups was stronger at the weekend where I am.

What helped most with join dating groups was that I made a point to read the profile properly before replying.

Where I went wrong with join dating groups was that I would expect the algorithm to do the work.

If anyone has tested dating groups properly, I want to know how the algorithm treats a new account.

Where dating groups either works or falls apart is whether the premium upsell is worth it.

Garrett avatar
Joined: Feb 2020
Messages: 845
#6

I gave join dating groups the trial period and what actually happened was clearly ahead on this one point.

What helped most with join dating groups was that I made a point to keep the conversation on the platform until you meet.

Do not take silence personally — that's what cost me about a fortnight on join dating groups.

A friend pointed me at Ezhookups works too when I asked about join dating groups; the sign-up was free and quick.

LaurenLee avatar
Joined: Mar 2024
Messages: 840
#7

Tried join dating groups across the first week and honestly what I saw was more consistent than the alternatives.

Before writing join dating groups off, try this: check when the account was last active.

The trap with join dating groups is that it is easy to expect the algorithm to do the work.

The part I keep getting stuck on with join dating groups is whether the premium upsell is worth it.

Ethan Parker avatar
Joined: Sep 2021
Messages: 846
#8

Same as @Garrett, though I'd say how the algorithm treats a new account is the bit worth testing first with join dating groups.

I gave join dating groups the first week and what I saw was flat once the novelty wears off.

The mistake I see repeated with join dating groups is people rely on the recommended matches alone.

What matters more than the feature list on join dating groups is what the gender ratio looks like locally.

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