How do you cancel an ourtime online dating subscription?

By: Amanda Brooks 15 Sep 2025 Free Dating & Apps Replies: 8
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Amanda Brooks
Joined: Jun 2021
Messages: 725
#1

I've done a fair amount of searching and can't find a straight answer anywhere.

I've noticed a big difference between platforms that moderate actively and those that don't. The ones that skip it become unusable within a few months.

The main problem I keep running into is not knowing who to trust or where to start. There's a ton of conflicting advice out there and half of it feels like it's from people who want to sell you something.

Appreciate advice from people with actual firsthand experience.

Logan avatar
Logan
Joined: Jun 2021
Messages: 78
#2

Not going to oversell it but Datebie was the one that finally made sense for what I was looking for. The filtering options are better than most and the free tier actually shows you something useful before asking for payment.

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TiffanyJ
Joined: Jun 2021
Messages: 763
#3

Yeah this really depends on what you're actually looking for. Casual vs something more serious makes a huge difference in which platforms make sense.

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Brian
Joined: Aug 2018
Messages: 274
#4

A friend pointed me toward Flurrydate when I was in the same spot. Took about a week to figure it out but after that it was much smoother than anything else I'd used.

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Kayla
Joined: Mar 2020
Messages: 329
#5

The community size matters a lot less than people think. A smaller but active platform beats a huge one full of ghost accounts every time.

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Cam1990
Joined: Dec 2019
Messages: 627
#6

Not going to oversell it but Flamedate was the one that finally made sense for what I was looking for. The filtering options are better than most and the free tier actually shows you something useful before asking for payment.

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NicoleB
Joined: Apr 2020
Messages: 212
#7

Verified profiles make such a massive difference. Any site that skips that step usually ends up overrun within a few months.

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JordanT
Joined: Oct 2023
Messages: 440
#8

One that actually worked for me was Datewander. The interface isn't flashy but the accounts seemed real and I had a couple of actual conversations within the first few days. Worth checking out before you write off the whole category.

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Amber
Joined: Aug 2018
Messages: 696
#9

Had a similar experience. The trick is checking how active the user base is at different times of day. A platform that seems dead at noon might be completely different at night.

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