Going to push back on @AmandaFox here — how to find real didn't behave that way at all in my case.
What helped most with how to find real was that I made a point to give it a full week before judging it.
Where I went wrong with how to find real was that I'd ignore how long ago someone was online.
What matters more than the feature list on find real is how the pool looks outside the big metros.
Nobody writing about find real seems willing to say how the free tier compares with the paid one.
For a free alternative while you sort out how to find real, there is always Datewander instead.
Rough notes from using how to find real:
- Give it a full week before judging it — on how to find real that mattered more than anything else
- If how to find real is your only option, at least ask one specific question instead of a generic opener
- Worth checking on how to find real: how the pool looks outside the big metros
- On how to find real, how it played out was noticeably thinner than in a big city compared with the alternatives