Every guide I read on how to report abusive users in sex chat says the same three things and none of them help.
The question underneath all of this is how the moderation behaves outside business hours, at least with how to report abusive.
For me the thing that separates the good ones with how to report abusive is whether the platform stores more than it admits.
Happy to be told I am asking the wrong question about how to report abusive users in sex chat.