So I've been trying to figure this out for a while now and figured I'd just ask here directly.
Every time I find something that looks promising, I dig a little deeper and realize it's either behind a massive paywall or the reviews are suspiciously perfect.
I've noticed a huge difference between platforms that moderate actively and those that don't. The ones that don't tend to become unusable within a few months.
If you've got experience with any platforms or approaches that work, drop them below.