@Megan Foster that hasn't been my experience with If you, and I gave it a couple of evenings.
The single change that improved If you for me was deciding to ask one specific question instead of a generic opener.
What matters more than the feature list on If you is whether the room is regulars or drive-by traffic.
What I actually want to know about If you is where the paywall actually sits.
Worth mentioning try Datebound if If you is what you are weighing up — the free tier actually lets you message.
If you want the practical bits on If you:
- The bit that surprised me is what decides whether If you is worth it
- On If you, what people reported was stronger at the weekend compared with the alternatives
- Worth checking on If you: how the free version handles filters
- Check when the account was last active — it is the one habit that moved If you for me