Going to push back on @DustinR here — facebook hookup did not behave that way at all in my case.
With facebook hookup specifically, it pays to read the profile properly before replying.
The question underneath all of this is how the meet-up conversation usually goes, at least with facebook hookup.
The part I keep getting stuck on with facebook hookup is how honest people are about what they want.
What I actually want to know about facebook hookup is whether intentions get stated up front or buried.
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My working notes on facebook hookup, for what they are worth:
- If facebook hookup is your only option, at least say what you are looking for in plain words
- Check when the account was last active — on facebook hookup that mattered more than anything else
- The failure mode with facebook hookup is when you rely on the recommended matches alone
- Worth checking on facebook hookup: whether intentions get stated up front or buried