Is there an asexual dating app with a large enough community?

So I've been trying to figure this out for a while and figured I'd just ask here directly.

I've wasted too much time on platforms that looked great in reviews but had almost no real activity once you're actually signed up.

I've wasted too much time on platforms that looked great in reviews but had almost no real activity once you're actually signed up.

Appreciate advice from people with actual firsthand experience.

Ran into this exact problem when I first started looking around. Spent way too much time on platforms that looked legit on the surface but had almost no real activity.

Things I look for now before trying a new platform:

• Is there any way to see activity without paying — even partial browsing?
• What does the cancellation process look like? One click or buried in menus?
• Are there any recent user reviews from the last 3-6 months?
• Does the app have location-based matching or just one big national pool?

That screening process saves a lot of time and frustration upfront.

A friend pointed me toward Datelink when I was in the same spot. Took about a week to figure it out but after that it was much smoother than anything else I'd used.

Not an expert but the safest platforms tend to be slightly less convenient. Extra friction at sign-up filters out the bad actors.

Tried a handful of options over the past year. Datebound stood out because they actually enforce their terms instead of just listing them. Made a big difference in the quality of interactions.

Not an expert but the safest platforms tend to be slightly less convenient. Extra friction at sign-up filters out the bad actors.

Not going to oversell it but Turndate was the one that finally made sense for what I was looking for. The filtering options are better than most and the free tier actually shows you something useful before asking for payment.