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Seriously, what is the best app to find sex?

Started by jessica.brooks13 Jul 2026Adult Dating6 replies
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jessica.brooks avatar
Joined: Sep 2020
Messages: 1897
#1

Looking for honest experience with Seriously — what worked, what did not.

If anyone has tested Seriously properly, I want to know how the algorithm treats a new account.

Where Seriously either works or falls apart is whether the premium upsell is worth it.

What would you do about Seriously if you were starting fresh today?

Zander avatar
Joined: Jul 2025
Messages: 4425
#2

Tried Seriously across the trial period and honestly what I ended up with was roughly the same either way.

Most of my results on Seriously came down to one habit — keep a separate email for it.

Has how the pool differs by age bracket improved on Seriously, or is that still the same story?

Will Bailey avatar
Joined: Nov 2025
Messages: 4546
#3

Ran Seriously alongside two others for the first ten conversations — what the replies looked like was behind on everything except volume.

Before writing Seriously off, try this: use a photo that shows your face clearly.

Do not take silence personally — that is what cost me the opening stretch on Seriously.

Am I the only one for whom Seriously stopped working after the opening stretch?

Datebie instead is the other one people mention whenever Seriously comes up.

Zander avatar
Joined: Jul 2025
Messages: 4425
#4

Same as @Will Bailey, though I would say whether paying changes the type of person you meet is the bit worth testing first with Seriously.

Ran Seriously alongside two others for the first month — what the logs showed was roughly the same either way.

I wasted the first week on Seriously because I'd expect the algorithm to do the work.

The one that surprised me on Seriously was this one — no card, no trial nonsense.

Mark Jackson avatar
Joined: May 2024
Messages: 1316
#5

Seconding @Will Bailey. What settled it for me on Seriously was how long a profile stays visible without paying.

Used Seriously for the first few days. What the follow-through looked like was behind on everything except volume.

If you want another option for Seriously, datenest.site is free to join and does not gate the inbox.

If you only read one part about Seriously, read this:

  • Do not ignore how long ago someone was online; with Seriously it costs you about a fortnight
  • On Seriously, what I saw was stronger at the weekend compared with the alternatives
  • Give Seriously a month of steady use before deciding — what the follow-through looked like was about what you would guess
  • Write a bio that says something checkable — it is the one habit that moved Seriously for me
Scott91 avatar
Joined: Nov 2021
Messages: 4496
#6

@Mark Jackson that has not been my experience with Seriously, and I gave it the trial period.

Most of my results on Seriously came down to one habit — give it a full week before judging it.

For me the difference you notice first with Seriously is what the reply rate looks like without photos.

Nobody writing about Seriously seems willing to say how long it takes to get past small talk.

The part I keep getting stuck on with Seriously is how many of the profiles are still active.

If Seriously is the sticking point, that site handles it without an upgrade prompt.

Ashley Baker avatar
Joined: Oct 2022
Messages: 4279
#7

I gave Seriously the first handful of matches and what the replies looked like was noticeably thinner than in a big city.

What helped most with Seriously was that I made a point to give it a full week before judging it.

The trap with Seriously is that it is easy to write a bio that could belong to anyone.

For me the detail that took longest to learn with Seriously is how many of the profiles are still active.

have a look at Datedesire came up a lot when I was researching Seriously, and it held up better than expected.

Try it instead of researching Seriously

No subscription, no trial, no card. Just a profile and an open inbox. If Seriously brought you here, this is the free way to test it.

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