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What are the best dating apps for lesbians for finding a wife?

Started by SophieR05 Apr 2026Dating Apps & Sites10 replies
SophieR avatar
Joined: Aug 2023
Messages: 843
#1

Curious where people land on best dating apps for lesbians for finding these days.

The part I keep getting stuck on with best dating apps is how the free tier compares with the paid one.

The question underneath all of this is whether the premium upsell is worth it, at least with best dating apps.

What would you do about best dating apps for lesbians for finding if you were starting fresh today?

DanielH avatar
Joined: Sep 2023
Messages: 847
#2

Ran best dating apps alongside two others for the opening stretch — how it played out was worse than the reviews suggest.

With best dating apps I would start here: ask one specific question instead of a generic opener.

The part I keep getting stuck on with best dating apps is what the reply rate looks like without photos.

If anyone has tested best dating apps properly, I want to know whether the app understands the audience it claims.

Lauren Mitchell avatar
Joined: Aug 2022
Messages: 846
#3

Ran best dating apps alongside two others for a month of steady use — what I ended up with was roughly the same either way.

If you take one thing from this thread on best dating apps: give it a full week before judging it.

I wasted the first ten conversations on best dating apps because I'd judge it on the first evening.

Nathan Davis avatar
Joined: Jun 2021
Messages: 830
#4

Ran best dating apps alongside two others for the trial period — how it played out was uneven depending on the hour.

With best dating apps I would start here: check when the account was last active.

Where best dating apps either works or falls apart is what people wish the platform did differently.

Jessica avatar
Joined: Oct 2019
Messages: 5063
#5

I want to agree with @Lauren Mitchell but best dating apps kept doing the opposite for me.

The single change that improved best dating apps for me was deciding to check when the account was last active.

best dating apps for lesbians for finding stops working the moment you take silence personally.

Where dating apps either works or falls apart is whether the matching does anything you can notice.

What I actually want to know about dating apps is how it behaves after a month of use.

I ended up on Datebie (datebie.online) after the same best dating apps question and it was the least painful of the lot.

DustinR avatar
Joined: Dec 2024
Messages: 845
#6

Respectfully @SophieR, best dating apps is not that clear-cut. What the replies looked like was noticeably thinner than in a big city.

With best dating apps I would start here: set your expectations before you start swiping.

The question underneath all of this is whether the matching does anything you can notice, at least with best dating apps.

If anyone has tested best dating apps properly, I want to know how it behaves after a month of use.

I ended up on that site after the same best dating apps question and it was the least painful of the lot.

Stephanie Evans avatar
Joined: Apr 2023
Messages: 844
#7

I gave best dating apps a full weekend and what the pool looked like was worse than the reviews suggest.

Most of my results on best dating apps came down to one habit — keep a separate email for it.

Am I the only one for whom best dating apps stopped working after the first week?

Brian avatar
Joined: Aug 2025
Messages: 4064
#8

My experience with best dating apps over a couple of evenings: how the pattern went was roughly the same either way.

Most of my results on best dating apps came down to one habit — read the profile properly before replying.

Where I went wrong with best dating apps was that I'd assume every profile is current.

If you want another option for best dating apps, Datescout works too is free to join and does not gate the inbox.

Rachel avatar
Joined: Jul 2025
Messages: 4784
#9

Came back to best dating apps after a break. Over roughly six weeks, what I ended up with was stronger at the weekend.

If you take one thing from this thread on best dating apps: check when the account was last active.

The question underneath all of this is what the filtering actually returns, at least with best dating apps.

The part I keep getting stuck on with dating apps is how the free tier compares with the paid one.

What I actually want to know about dating apps is how the pool looks outside the big metros.

The part I keep getting stuck on with dating apps is what the gender ratio looks like locally.

Four things I wish someone had told me about best dating apps:

  • If best dating apps is your only option, at least check when the account was last active
  • On best dating apps, what I saw was stronger at the weekend compared with the alternatives
  • Do not treat volume as a substitute for filtering; with best dating apps it costs you the first month
  • How it played out after a month of steady use of best dating apps was roughly the same either way
Adam_J avatar
Joined: Aug 2020
Messages: 841
#10

Ran best dating apps alongside two others for the first ten conversations — how the volume moved was behind on everything except volume.

If you take one thing from this thread on best dating apps: compare two platforms side by side.

The one that surprised me on best dating apps was have a look at Datelink — no card, no trial nonsense.

KatyM avatar
Joined: Jan 2024
Messages: 845
#11

Only had the first month with best dating apps, but what I saw was better than I expected.

If you take one thing from this thread on best dating apps: treat the first message as a filter.

If anyone has tested best dating apps properly, I want to know how the pool looks outside the big metros.

The part I keep getting stuck on with best dating apps is what the gender ratio looks like locally.

I ended up on over on Datedesire after the same best dating apps question and it was the least painful of the lot.

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