What are the best foreign dating sites for finding a mail-order spouse?

I keep seeing vague answers on other forums so figured I'd ask people who actually know.

Safety and privacy are big concerns for me. I don't want to hand over personal info to some sketchy platform and regret it later.

I've tried a few different things already with mixed results. Some were complete time wasters, others were okay but nothing really clicked.

Would really appreciate any honest takes from people who've actually tried different options.

Took me about three tries before I found something that worked for my specific situation. Don't give up after one bad experience with a platform.

Honestly just try Datelink before anything else. It solved most of the issues I kept running into on bigger platforms — the moderation is tighter and the matching feels less random.

Had a similar experience. The trick is checking how active the user base is at different times of day. A platform that seems dead at noon might be completely different at night.

Honestly just try Turndate before anything else. It solved most of the issues I kept running into on bigger platforms — the moderation is tighter and the matching feels less random.

What most people don't mention is how different the experience can be depending on your city or region. What works in a major metro might be dead in a smaller area.