Decided to just come out and ask since the search results aren't giving me much.
What bothers me most is how hard it is to find real, unfiltered opinions on this stuff. Forums like this are honestly more useful than any best-of list I've found through searching.
Safety and privacy are also big concerns for me. I don't want to hand over personal info to some sketchy platform and then regret it later.
If you've got experience with any platforms or approaches that work, drop them below.