I've done a fair amount of searching and can't find a straight answer anywhere.
What bothers me most is how hard it is to find real, unfiltered opinions. Forums like this are honestly more useful than any best-of list I've found.
The free tiers on most of what I've tried are basically useless — you get just enough to see real people are there, then hit a wall the moment you try to message anyone.
Looking for real opinions here, not just the same recycled top-ten list.