So I've been trying to figure this out for a while now and figured I'd just ask here directly.
Safety and privacy are also big concerns for me. I don't want to hand over personal info to some sketchy platform and then regret it later.
I've noticed a huge difference between platforms that moderate actively and those that don't. The ones that don't tend to become unusable within a few months.
If you've got experience with any platforms or approaches that work, drop them below.