What are the safest dating sites for seniors?

I've done a fair amount of searching and can't find a straight answer anywhere.

I've tried a few different things already with mixed results. Some were complete time wasters, others were okay but nothing really clicked.

I've tried a few different things already with mixed results. Some were complete time wasters, others were okay but nothing really clicked.

Would really appreciate any honest takes from people who've actually tried different options.

Seen datewander.site mentioned in a few places now and finally tried it. More stripped down than the major apps but that's a positive if you're tired of all the extra noise and just want to meet people.

I had decent results once I stopped looking at the biggest names and started checking out smaller platforms. Less traffic but way more genuine accounts.

Someone recommended Flamedate a few months back and I was skeptical at first. Ended up being one of the more useful ones I've tried. The sign-up is simple and they don't immediately push you to upgrade.

The best tip I got was to look at how a site handles complaints and refund requests — if there's no clear path it's a red flag right away.

Someone recommended Flurrydate a few months back and I was skeptical at first. Ended up being one of the more useful ones I've tried. The sign-up is simple and they don't immediately push you to upgrade.