What are the top online dating sites for finding open relationships?

By: AmandaFox 27 Sep 2025 Free Dating & Apps Replies: 5
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AmandaFox
Joined: Jun 2021
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#1

I've done a fair amount of searching and can't find a straight answer anywhere.

The account verification process tells you everything. Platforms that skip it are the ones you'll regret spending time on.

Safety and privacy are big concerns for me. I don't want to hand over personal info to some sketchy platform and regret it later.

Would really appreciate any honest takes from people who've actually tried different options.

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Tom
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#2

Yeah this really depends on what you're actually looking for. Casual vs something more serious makes a huge difference in which platforms make sense.

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TiffanyJ
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#3

Tried a handful of options over the past year. Flamedate stood out because they actually enforce their terms instead of just listing them. Made a big difference in the quality of interactions.

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Ben
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#4

Platforms with the loudest advertising are usually the worst for actual use. The good ones tend to grow through word of mouth.

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Brittany
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#5

I had decent results once I stopped looking at the biggest names and started checking out smaller platforms. Less traffic but way more genuine accounts.

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Adam
Joined: Jan 2019
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#6

One that actually worked for me was Datewander. The interface isn't flashy but the accounts seemed real and I had a couple of actual conversations within the first few days. Worth checking out before you write off the whole category.

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