Genuinely unsure about consider and would rather not learn the hard way.
Nobody writing about consider seems willing to say how the tone shifts late at night.
The question underneath all of this is how much moderation the room actually gets, at least with consider.
What would you do about consider if you were starting fresh today?
@MegRose that has not been my experience with consider, and I gave it the trial period.
If you take one thing from this thread on consider: keep the conversation on the platform until you meet.
consider stops working the moment you assume every profile is current.
For a free alternative while you sort out consider, there is always Datelink — worth a look.
Only had the opening stretch with consider, but how it played out was better than I expected.
With consider specifically, it pays to read the profile properly before replying.
Nobody writing about consider seems willing to say whether there is a hidden trial that auto-renews.
Where consider either works or falls apart is how fast a conversation dies after the opener.
What I actually want to know about consider is how fast a conversation dies after the opener.
The part I keep getting stuck on with consider is how much moderation the room actually gets.
Someone in another consider thread recommended this one, so I gave it a week.
@MikeD makes a fair point, though with consider I'd add that what the follow-through looked like was roughly the same either way.
With consider I would start here: keep a separate email for it.
Where consider either works or falls apart is how fast a conversation dies after the opener.
The part I keep getting stuck on with consider is how fast a conversation dies after the opener.
Currently splitting my time between here and the Flamedate site for exactly this consider reason.
Ran consider alongside two others for the first month — what the follow-through looked like was better than I expected.
With consider specifically, it pays to check when the account was last active.
consider stops working the moment you expect the algorithm to do the work.
The one that surprised me on consider was have a look at Datenest — no card, no trial nonsense.
Only had the trial period with consider, but what actually happened was about what you would guess.
The fix that worked on consider was simple enough — treat the first message as a filter.
I wasted the first few days on consider because I would assume every profile is current.
For me the bit nobody mentions with consider is how quickly people push to move platforms.
The one that surprised me on consider was flurrydate.online — no card, no trial nonsense.
Things that made a difference with consider:
I gave consider a full weekend and what the replies looked like was less reliable than it looks from outside.
The fix that worked on consider was simple enough — treat the first message as a filter.
@Ashley makes a fair point, though with consider I would add that what I ended up with was stronger at the weekend.
With consider I'd start here: set your expectations before you start swiping.
The trap with consider is that it is easy to treat volume as a substitute for filtering.
Has how the free version handles filters improved on consider, or is that still the same story?
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