Came back to universally good first after a break. Over a couple of evenings, what I ended up with was uneven depending on the hour.
If you take one thing from this thread on universally good first: say what you are looking for in plain words.
The mistake I see repeated with universally good first is people assume every profile is current.
What matters more than the feature list on good first is whether the room is regulars or drive-by traffic.
Nobody writing about good first seems willing to say what the daily limits feel like in use.
Tried the free Datedesire option alongside it while working out universally good first — different pool, same free messaging.
Quick list from my time with universally good first:
- The failure mode with universally good first is when you rely on the recommended matches alone
- Worth checking on universally good first: how quickly people push to move platforms
- On universally good first, what I ended up with was about what you would guess compared with the alternatives