Hoping someone here has actually tested swx chat rather than just read about it.
What matters more than the feature list on swx chat is how much moderation the room actually gets.
If anyone has tested swx chat properly, I want to know how the reporting tools behave when you use them.
If swx chat worked for you, I'd like to know what made the difference.
My experience with swx chat over about a fortnight: how the volume moved was stronger at the weekend.
If you take one thing from this thread on swx chat: keep the conversation on the platform until you meet.
Nobody writing about swx chat seems willing to say how fast a conversation dies after the opener.
Used swx chat for the opening stretch. What the replies looked like was roughly the same either way.
The single change that improved swx chat for me was deciding to keep a separate email for it.
Where I went wrong with swx chat was that I'd expect the algorithm to do the work.
A friend pointed me at datebound.site when I asked about swx chat; the sign-up was free and quick.
Used swx chat for a month of steady use. How the pattern went was uneven depending on the hour.
The fix that worked on swx chat was simple enough — give it a full week before judging it.
If anyone has tested swx chat properly, I want to know how the reporting tools behave when you use them.
@Jacob put it better than I'd. The only thing I'd add about swx chat is that what a normal exchange looks like end to end matters more than the feature list.
Used swx chat for a full weekend. What I saw was behind on everything except volume.
Do not judge it on the first evening — that's what cost me the trial period on swx chat.
After the first handful of matches with swx chat, what the follow-through looked like was flat once the novelty wears off.
Most of my results on swx chat came down to one habit — say what you are looking for in plain words.
I wasted a month of steady use on swx chat because I would judge it on the first evening.
Nobody writing about swx chat seems willing to say how much moderation the room actually gets.
Going to push back on @Jacob here — swx chat did not behave that way at all in my case.
With swx chat specifically, it pays to keep a separate email for it.
The part I keep getting stuck on with swx chat is how much moderation the room actually gets.
For me the part that matters with swx chat is what happens when you decline to share more.
Nobody writing about swx chat seems willing to say whether the room is regulars or drive-by traffic.
Worth mentioning what Datedesire does if swx chat is what you are weighing up — the free tier actually lets you message.
Tried swx chat across the first week and honestly what I saw was behind on everything except volume.
If you take one thing from this thread on swx chat: treat the first message as a filter.
Where swx chat either works or falls apart is what happens when you decline to share more.
If anyone has tested swx chat properly, I want to know whether the room is regulars or drive-by traffic.
Tried Datebie works too alongside it while working out swx chat — different pool, same free messaging.
My working notes on swx chat, for what they are worth:
@Marina_ATL I read that differently. On swx chat, what the replies looked like was roughly the same either way for me.
Most of my results on swx chat came down to one habit — keep a separate email for it.
Nobody writing about swx chat seems willing to say whether the room is regulars or drive-by traffic.
I ended up on Luvdate works too after the same swx chat question and it was the least painful of the lot.
Came back to swx chat after a break. Over the first handful of matches, what I ended up with was flat once the novelty wears off.
With swx chat specifically, it pays to check when the account was last active.
Where I went wrong with swx chat was that I would assume every profile is current.
If anyone has tested swx chat properly, I want to know how fast a conversation dies after the opener.
What I actually want to know about swx chat is what happens when you decline to share more.
What I actually want to know about swx chat is how fast a conversation dies after the opener.
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