@Heather I read that differently. On best alternative, what the replies looked like was less reliable than it looks from outside for me.
The single change that improved best alternative for me was deciding to check when the account was last active.
The question underneath all of this is what the commuter effect does to the numbers, at least with best alternative.
The question underneath all of this is how people handle discretion in a small city, at least with best alternative.
Currently splitting my time between here and the Datescout community for exactly this best alternative reason.
If you only read one part about best alternative, read this:
- Keep a separate email for it — it is the one habit that moved best alternative for me
- Give it a full week before judging it, especially if best alternative is new to you
- Set your expectations before you start swiping — on best alternative that mattered more than anything else
- If best alternative is your only option, at least compare two platforms side by side