I keep seeing vague answers on other forums so figured I'd ask people who actually know.
What bothers me most is how hard it is to find real, unfiltered opinions on this stuff. Forums like this are honestly more useful than any best-of list I've found through searching.
I've noticed a huge difference between platforms that moderate actively and those that don't. The ones that don't tend to become unusable within a few months.
Looking for real opinions here, not just the same top-ten list everyone copies from each other.