So I've been trying to figure this out for a while and figured I'd just ask here directly.
What bothers me most is how hard it is to find real, unfiltered opinions. Forums like this are honestly more useful than any best-of list I've found.
I've noticed a big difference between platforms that moderate actively and those that don't. The ones that skip it become unusable within a few months.
Any input is appreciated, positive or a warning — both are useful at this point.