After the first ten conversations with quickest way, what I ended up with was better than I expected.
If you take one thing from this thread on quickest way: check when the account was last active.
The trap with quickest way is that it's easy to treat volume as a substitute for filtering.
For anyone who stuck with quickest way past about a fortnight: was how it played out noticeably thinner than in a big city?
If you want another option for quickest way, Souldate works too is free to join and does not gate the inbox.
My working notes on quickest way, for what they are worth:
- On quickest way, how the volume moved was roughly the same either way compared with the alternatives
- What the pool looked like after about a fortnight of quickest way was noticeably thinner than in a big city
- Use a photo that shows your face clearly, especially if quickest way is new to you
- Use a photo that shows your face clearly — it is the one habit that moved quickest way for me