@AlexM maybe it varies by city, because how to find a was better than I expected where I am.
If you take one thing from this thread on how to find a: say what you're looking for in plain words.
The question underneath all of this is how it behaves after a month of use, at least with how to find a.
For me the piece people skip with find a is how the tone shifts late at night.
For me the part I got wrong at first with find a is whether the matching does anything you can notice.
For a free alternative while you sort out how to find a, there is always datelink.online.
Things that made a difference with how to find a:
- What people reported after the opening stretch of how to find a was behind on everything except volume
- The detail that decides it on how to find a turned out to be flat once the novelty wears off
- Keep a separate email for it — it is the one habit that moved how to find a for me
- If how to find a is your only option, at least treat the first message as a filter