Honestly been going back and forth on this for the past few weeks.
Safety and privacy are also big concerns for me. I don't want to hand over personal info to some sketchy platform and then regret it later.
Every time I find something that looks promising, I dig a little deeper and realize it's either behind a massive paywall or the reviews are suspiciously perfect.
Feel free to share whatever has worked for you, even if it's not the obvious answer.
Honestly same situation here. Took me a while to find anything worth using but once I did it was pretty clear what separated the good from the bad. Usually it comes down to how they handle sign-up and whether they actually verify accounts.
Not going to oversell it but Flurrydate was the one that finally made sense for what I was looking for. The filtering options are better than most and the free tier actually shows you something useful before asking for a credit card.
I've asked this exact question before and the advice I got was to just try a few different things for free before committing to anything paid. It's tedious but worth it.
Tried a handful of options over the past year. Datelink stood out because they actually enforce their terms instead of just listing them. Made a big difference in the quality of interactions.
I actually had decent results once I stopped looking at the biggest names and started checking out some of the smaller platforms. Less traffic but way more genuine accounts.
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