I've done a fair amount of searching and can't find a straight answer anywhere.
What bothers me most is how hard it is to find real, unfiltered opinions. Forums like this are honestly more useful than any best-of list I've found through searching.
I've noticed a big difference between platforms that moderate actively and those that don't. The ones that don't tend to become unusable within a few months.
Looking for real opinions here, not just the same top-ten list everyone copies from each other.