@Nicole that has not been my experience with best place, and I gave it the first handful of matches.
If you take one thing from this thread on best place: keep the conversation on the platform until you meet.
Anyone compared best place against the obvious alternative on whether it is worth keeping a second account for it?
What I actually want to know about best place is how active it's outside the biggest cities.
The part I keep getting stuck on with best place is whether the performers are live or on loop.
Nobody writing about best place seems willing to say what the tone is like inside the community.
Currently splitting my time between here and over on Souldate for exactly this best place reason.
Boiled down, best place came to this:
- How the volume moved after the first month of best place was more consistent than the alternatives
- The difference you notice first is what decides whether best place is worth it
- Treat the first message as a filter — on best place that mattered more than anything else