I keep seeing vague answers on other forums so figured I'd ask people who actually know.
The main problem I keep running into is not knowing who to trust or where to even start. There's a ton of conflicting advice out there and half of it feels like it's coming from people who just want to sell you something.
The free tiers on most of what I've tried are basically useless. You get just enough to see that real people are there, then hit a wall the second you try to actually message anyone.
If you've got experience with any platforms or approaches that work, drop them below.