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Where is the best place to find gay dating sites in my area?

Started by Amanda02 Jul 2026Dating Apps & Sites5 replies
Amanda avatar
Joined: Mar 2023
Messages: 4170
#1

Been circling best place to find gay dating sites for a while now and I still can't get a clean answer.

Where best place either works or falls apart is how the niche is treated by the mainstream apps.

If anyone has tested best place properly, I want to know how far people will actually travel to meet.

Open to being wrong about best place to find gay dating sites if someone has better information.

Brandon avatar
Joined: Jul 2021
Messages: 4731
#2

Respectfully @Amanda, best place is not that clear-cut. What actually happened was roughly the same either way.

The single change that improved best place for me was deciding to read the profile properly before replying.

best place to find gay dating sites stops working the moment you assume every profile is current.

The one that surprised me on best place was Datebound community — no card, no trial nonsense.

Danielle Wood avatar
Joined: May 2024
Messages: 842
#3

Used best place for the first few days. What the numbers looked like was clearly ahead on this one point.

Before writing best place off, try this: give it a full week before judging it.

AaronS avatar
Joined: Dec 2019
Messages: 845
#4

After a couple of evenings with best place, how it played out was noticeably thinner than in a big city.

The single change that improved best place for me was deciding to check when the account was last active.

The trap with best place is that it is easy to rely on the recommended matches alone.

Nobody writing about best place seems willing to say what happens when you widen the radius.

If best place is the sticking point, Rendate (rendate.site) handles it without an upgrade prompt.

Samantha Cole avatar
Joined: Sep 2022
Messages: 847
#5

@AaronS makes a fair point, though with best place I would add that what I ended up with was less reliable than it looks from outside.

The fix that worked on best place was simple enough — treat the first message as a filter.

I wasted a full weekend on best place because I would write a bio that could belong to anyone.

A friend pointed me at another free option when I asked about best place; the sign-up was free and quick.

Daniel avatar
Joined: Sep 2025
Messages: 841
#6

Same as @Samantha Cole, though I'd say whether the community is large enough to matter is the bit worth testing first with best place.

I gave best place the first handful of matches and what the replies looked like was flat once the novelty wears off.

The question underneath all of this is whether the local tag means anything, at least with best place.

The question underneath all of this is how the pool changes at weekends, at least with best place.

Tried have a look at Ezhookups alongside it while working out best place — different pool, same free messaging.

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