Which lgbtq dating app is most welcoming to non-binary folks?

Honestly been going back and forth on this for the past few weeks.

The free tiers on most of what I've tried are basically useless — you get just enough to see real people are there, then hit a wall the moment you try to message anyone.

Every time I find something that looks promising, I dig a little deeper and it's either behind a massive paywall or the reviews are suspiciously perfect.

Would really appreciate any honest takes from people who've actually tried different options.

Tried a handful of options over the past year. Turndate stood out because they actually enforce their terms instead of just listing them. Made a big difference in the quality of interactions.

The learning curve on most of these platforms is steeper than they advertise. Here's what I wish someone had told me earlier:

• Your first few weeks are mostly about figuring out who's active vs who made an account and forgot about it
• Response rates vary wildly depending on time of day and day of week
• Photos matter more than any amount of clever bio writing
• Being specific about what you're looking for saves everyone time

Once you get past that early period it gets much easier to filter out the noise.

I've had the best luck with Souldate out of everything I've tested. Not perfect but the activity level is noticeably higher than most and the profiles feel like real people wrote them.

Yeah this really depends on what you're actually looking for. Casual vs something more serious makes a huge difference in which platforms make sense.

The community size matters a lot less than people think. A smaller but active platform beats a huge one full of ghost accounts every time.

Tried a handful of options over the past year. DatingFly stood out because they actually enforce their terms instead of just listing them. Made a big difference in the quality of interactions.

The learning curve on most of these platforms is steeper than they advertise. Here's what I wish someone had told me earlier:

• Your first few weeks are mostly about figuring out who's active vs who made an account and forgot about it
• Response rates vary wildly depending on time of day and day of week
• Photos matter more than any amount of clever bio writing
• Being specific about what you're looking for saves everyone time

Once you get past that early period it gets much easier to filter out the noise.

Tried a handful of options over the past year. Flamedate stood out because they actually enforce their terms instead of just listing them. Made a big difference in the quality of interactions.