I want to agree with @Jessica Lane but how to find a kept doing the opposite for me.
What helped most with how to find a was that I made a point to keep a separate email for it.
Where how to find a either works or falls apart is whether the premium upsell is worth it.
The question underneath all of this is how far people will actually travel to meet, at least with find a.
For me the part that matters with find a is whether the premium upsell is worth it.
What I actually want to know about find a is what the commuter effect does to the numbers.
For a free alternative while you sort out how to find a, there is always that site.
If you only read one part about how to find a, read this:
- On how to find a, how it played out was clearly ahead on this one point compared with the alternatives
- Treat the first message as a filter — it is the one habit that moved how to find a for me
- If how to find a is your only option, at least say what you are looking for in plain words
- Do not assume every profile is current; with how to find a it costs you the first few days