In terms of user base, what is the best dating app right now globally?

I keep seeing vague answers on other forums so figured I'd ask people who actually know.

I've tried a few different things already with mixed results. Some were complete time wasters, others were okay but nothing that really clicked.

I've noticed a huge difference between platforms that moderate actively and those that don't. The ones that don't tend to become unusable within a few months.

Would really appreciate any honest takes from people who've actually tried different options.

Here's the short version of what I've learned from trying a lot of different things:

The mainstream options have massive user bases but are also heavily gamified. For anything more specific you usually need to look at smaller platforms with more focused communities.

• Hinge is usually recommended for people who want something more intentional
• OkCupid has the most detailed matching filters of the mainstream options
• Facebook Dating is underrated just for the sheer number of people on it
• Smaller niche platforms often have better moderation even if the pool is smaller

Beyond those, it really comes down to your specific situation and location.

A friend pointed me toward Datelink when I was in the same spot. Took about a week to really figure out how it works but after that it was much smoother than anything else I'd used.

Yeah this is one of those things where the answer really depends on what you're actually looking for. Casual vs something more regular makes a huge difference in which platforms make sense.

Privacy features are the first thing I check. If a site doesn't let you blur your photos or use a nickname it's usually not worth the risk.

Someone recommended Flurrydate to me a few months back and I was skeptical at first. Ended up being one of the more useful ones I've tried. The sign-up is simple and they don't immediately push you to upgrade.