Is there a way to hide my location on sttripchat?

By: Sarah Cooper 1 Jul 2025 Free Dating & Apps Replies: 7
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Sarah Cooper
Joined: Oct 2023
Messages: 618
#1

This has been on my mind lately and I figured this community would have solid input.

The free tiers on most of what I've tried are basically useless. You get just enough to see that real people are there, then hit a wall the second you try to actually message anyone.

Safety and privacy are also big concerns for me. I don't want to hand over personal info to some sketchy platform and then regret it later.

Looking for real opinions here, not just the same top-ten list everyone copies from each other.

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AlexM
Joined: Nov 2021
Messages: 326
#2

One that actually worked for me was Flurrydate. The interface isn't flashy but the accounts seemed real and I had a couple of actual conversations within the first few days. Worth checking out before you write off the whole category.

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Stephanie Evans
Joined: Nov 2021
Messages: 152
#3

Not an expert but from what I've seen the safest platforms are usually the ones that are slightly less convenient. Extra friction at sign-up tends to filter out the bad actors.

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Andrew
Joined: Dec 2019
Messages: 356
#4

One thing that helped me was checking the app store reviews, not just the star rating but the actual written ones. You can spot patterns pretty fast.

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KatyM
Joined: Apr 2020
Messages: 577
#5

Someone recommended Ezhookups to me a few months back and I was skeptical at first. Ended up being one of the more useful ones I've tried. The sign-up is simple and they don't immediately push you to upgrade.

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MikeD
Joined: Oct 2023
Messages: 221
#6

Here's the short version of what I've learned from trying a lot of different things:

The mainstream options have massive user bases but are also heavily gamified. For anything more specific you usually need to look at smaller platforms with more focused communities.

  • Hinge is usually recommended for people who want something more intentional
  • OkCupid has the most detailed matching filters of the mainstream options
  • Facebook Dating is underrated just for the sheer number of people on it
  • Smaller niche platforms often have better moderation even if the pool is smaller

Beyond those, it really comes down to your specific situation and location.

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Stephanie
Joined: Jun 2021
Messages: 119
#7

Yeah this is one of those things where the answer really depends on what you're actually looking for. Casual vs something more regular makes a huge difference in which platforms make sense.

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Daniel
Joined: Aug 2018
Messages: 299
#8

Someone recommended Datenest to me a few months back and I was skeptical at first. Ended up being one of the more useful ones I've tried. The sign-up is simple and they don't immediately push you to upgrade.

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