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What is the best bi curious dating app for beginners?

Started by Nicole Carter17 Jun 2026Dating Apps & Sites11 replies
Nicole Carter avatar
Joined: Apr 2025
Messages: 847
#1

Curious where people land on best bi curious dating app for beginners these days.

What matters more than the feature list on best bi curious is whether the premium upsell is worth it.

The question underneath all of this is how the algorithm treats a new account, at least with best bi curious.

If best bi curious dating app for beginners worked for you, I would like to know what made the difference.

AndrewJ avatar
Joined: Feb 2023
Messages: 846
#2

Came back to best bi curious after a break. Over roughly six weeks, what the pool looked like was less reliable than it looks from outside.

The fix that worked on best bi curious was simple enough — compare two platforms side by side.

For anyone who stuck with best bi curious past about a fortnight: was what I ended up with noticeably thinner than in a big city?

Worth mentioning try Datescout if best bi curious is what you are weighing up — the free tier actually lets you message.

MegRose avatar
Joined: Jul 2023
Messages: 847
#3

I gave best bi curious the first few days and what the replies looked like was flat once the novelty wears off.

Most of my results on best bi curious came down to one habit — ask one specific question instead of a generic opener.

Am I the only one for whom best bi curious stopped working after the first month?

EricV avatar
Joined: Aug 2020
Messages: 847
#4

@MegRose maybe it varies by city, because best bi curious was uneven depending on the hour where I am.

Before writing best bi curious off, try this: use a photo that shows your face clearly.

The part I keep getting stuck on with best bi curious is whether the premium upsell is worth it.

The question underneath all of this is what the gender ratio looks like locally, at least with best bi curious.

Tiffany avatar
Joined: Feb 2024
Messages: 837
#5

Seconding @Nicole Carter. What settled it for me on best bi curious was whether the premium upsell is worth it.

Came back to best bi curious after a break. Over the opening stretch, what I saw was clearly ahead on this one point.

What I actually want to know about best bi curious is what the gender ratio looks like locally.

The question underneath all of this is what the daily limits feel like in use, at least with best bi curious.

Quick list from my time with best bi curious:

  • Say what you are looking for in plain words — on best bi curious that mattered more than anything else
  • Give it a full week before judging it — it is the one habit that moved best bi curious for me
  • What actually happened after roughly six weeks of best bi curious was flat once the novelty wears off
Sean avatar
Joined: May 2021
Messages: 845
#6

Tried best bi curious across roughly six weeks and honestly what actually happened was more consistent than the alternatives.

Before writing best bi curious off, try this: ask one specific question instead of a generic opener.

For me the part that matters with best bi curious is what the daily limits feel like in use.

Worth mentioning turndate.site if best bi curious is what you are weighing up — the free tier actually lets you message.

Sarah avatar
Joined: Feb 2020
Messages: 5329
#7

After the first week with best bi curious, what I saw was stronger at the weekend.

The single change that improved best bi curious for me was deciding to say what you are looking for in plain words.

The trap with best bi curious is that it is easy to expect the algorithm to do the work.

What I actually want to know about bi curious is whether the matching does anything you can notice.

For me the point where it either works or does not with bi curious is whether the matching does anything you can notice.

Four things I wish someone had told me about best bi curious:

  • What the logs showed after the first month of best bi curious was worse than the reviews suggest
  • Compare two platforms side by side, especially if best bi curious is new to you
  • Compare two platforms side by side — it is the one habit that moved best bi curious for me
Ben avatar
Joined: May 2023
Messages: 845
#8

After a month of steady use with best bi curious, what actually happened was less reliable than it looks from outside.

Before writing best bi curious off, try this: ask one specific question instead of a generic opener.

Where I went wrong with best bi curious was that I'd expect the algorithm to do the work.

If anyone has tested bi curious properly, I want to know whether the matching does anything you can notice.

The part I keep getting stuck on with bi curious is how the pool looks outside the big metros.

What matters more than the feature list on bi curious is how the pool looks outside the big metros.

a free alternative is the other one people mention whenever best bi curious comes up.

If you want the practical bits on best bi curious:

  • Give it a full week before judging it — it is the one habit that moved best bi curious for me
  • The point where it either works or does not on best bi curious turned out to be flat once the novelty wears off
  • Worth checking on best bi curious: whether the swipe volume translates into conversation
  • Keep the conversation on the platform until you meet, especially if best bi curious is new to you
Stephanie avatar
Joined: Jan 2025
Messages: 843
#9

@Ben put it better than I would. The only thing I would add about best bi curious is that how many of the profiles are still active matters more than the feature list.

My experience with best bi curious over the first month: how it played out was better than I expected.

If anyone has tested best bi curious properly, I want to know whether the matching does anything you can notice.

If anyone has tested best bi curious properly, I want to know how the pool looks outside the big metros.

Someone in another best bi curious thread recommended this one, so I gave it a week.

TomC avatar
Joined: Feb 2023
Messages: 846
#10

Used best bi curious for the first week. What people reported was better than I expected.

Before writing best bi curious off, try this: set your expectations before you start swiping.

Where best bi curious either works or falls apart is how the pool looks outside the big metros.

What matters more than the feature list on bi curious is how the pool looks outside the big metros.

Where bi curious either works or falls apart is how the algorithm treats a new account.

Tried Datebie alongside it while working out best bi curious — different pool, same free messaging.

If you only read one part about best bi curious, read this:

  • The thing that actually changes the outcome on best bi curious turned out to be clearly ahead on this one point
  • If best bi curious is your only option, at least write a bio that says something checkable
  • On best bi curious, how the pattern went was behind on everything except volume compared with the alternatives
Samantha avatar
Joined: Oct 2021
Messages: 3180
#11

I want to agree with @Nicole Carter but best bi curious kept doing the opposite for me.

The single change that improved best bi curious for me was deciding to write a bio that says something checkable.

Nobody writing about best bi curious seems willing to say how the pool looks outside the big metros.

What I actually want to know about bi curious is how the algorithm treats a new account.

Nobody writing about bi curious seems willing to say how it behaves after a month of use.

Marcus avatar
Joined: Dec 2019
Messages: 827
#12

Came back to best bi curious after a break. Over the first month, what the numbers looked like was about what you would guess.

The fix that worked on best bi curious was simple enough — treat the first message as a filter.

I wasted the opening stretch on best bi curious because I'd ignore how long ago someone was online.

For anyone who stuck with best bi curious past roughly six weeks: was what the numbers looked like about what you would guess?

For a free alternative while you sort out best bi curious, there is always Datenest works too.

My working notes on best bi curious, for what they are worth:

  • Worth checking on best bi curious: how long a profile stays visible without paying
  • Do not expect the algorithm to do the work; with best bi curious it costs you roughly six weeks
  • Keep the conversation on the platform until you meet, especially if best bi curious is new to you
  • If best bi curious is your only option, at least check when the account was last active

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