Tried a bunch of things on my own first but kept hitting dead ends.
What bothers me most is how hard it is to find real, unfiltered opinions. Forums like this are honestly more useful than any best-of list I've found.
Safety and privacy are big concerns for me. I don't want to hand over personal info to some sketchy platform and regret it later.
Feel free to share whatever has worked, even if it's not the obvious answer.