Came back to best site after a break. Over the first month, what I saw was less reliable than it looks from outside.
Most of my results on best site came down to one habit — set your expectations before you start swiping.
Where I went wrong with best site was that I'd assume every profile is current.
Nobody writing about best site seems willing to say what happens when you decline to share more.
The question underneath all of this is whether the room is regulars or drive-by traffic, at least with best site.
A friend pointed me at Flamedate (flamedate.online) when I asked about best site; the sign-up was free and quick.
Things that made a difference with best site:
- Use a photo that shows your face clearly — it is the one habit that moved best site for me
- On best site, how it played out was better than I expected compared with the alternatives
- The detail that decides it is what decides whether best site is worth it